Sense of Wonder

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Sense of Wonder

You will enrich your life immeasurably if you approach it with a sense of wonder and discovery, and always challenge yourself to try new things.
Nate Berkus

What inspires you ? Which places or situations Impart to your heart a sense of wonder ? I was asked this question recently at a sales training session in Atlanta . For me, the attached photo describes one of the things that stirs my soul . The sun peeking  it’s bright orb over the Atlantic Ocean, a cup of dark roast coffee in my hand, and hanging out with my best friend -These are the occasions when time literally stops for me. During those moments, I feel the steady infusion of energy and inspiration that floods every fiber of my being.

What revitalizes you ? A fishing pole or golf club in your hand ? A deep tissue or hot stone massage ? A hike in the wilderness or walk in a local park ? Maybe a glowing sunset or vibrant starry night ? Every person has different reset buttons, but we all need to experience wonder because it forces us outside of ourselves. It challenges us to reflect on beauty. Children come by this very naturally, but we can easily digress into a mindset like Peter Panning in the Movie “Hook” ,and forget how to imagine, how to crow , and how to fly ! We grow up and become all serious, and everything is staunch and starched; and laughter and simple wonder get pushed out of our lives and replaced by quotas, forecasts, and making money. Don’t get me wrong, I agree with Zig Ziglar, that money is somewhere in rank close to oxygen; but I don’t want to lose my soul in the process of pursuing financial gain; or forget to enjoy the journey along the way. Sometimes when I am working in the yard, and I see one of our heirloom roses blooming, I am compelled to stop what I am doing, walk over to the rose bush, and inhale deeply on this creation of beauty. I am never sorry that did.

While traveling back to Orlando from business trips, inevitably there are one or two or myriads of families with small children en route to Disney. You can feel and hear the excitement bubbling from the children like a summer monsoon. The poor parents are hard pressed to contain them and even harness them into their seat belts as the little ones overflow with their anticipation of visiting the Magic Kingdom. Don’t they realize there are bills to pay ? Can’t they see that someone had to fork out cash for the plane ticket , make the hotel reservations, book the car, and make plans on feeding them every time they are hungry ? Nope , and they don’t care either, because it is not their time for responsibility as much as it is to learn and experience LIFE. This is their season of wonder. Their time to imagine and dream. College debt will come soon enough !

I believe it is up to each of us to become intentional about keeping our sense of wonder in life. I am not advocating some Pollyanna - ish type of head-in-the-sand existence ; but neither do I want to subsist within an endless drudgery of business dealings without finding happiness along the way. I challenge you to stop, pause, and reflect on the things that bring you wonder, and as you do, you will become a  wonder-full person. Find the wonder and the joy in the journey.

Wisdom begins in wonder. - Socrates


There are no great limits to growth because there are no limits of human intelligence, imagination, and wonder. - Ronald Reagan

Peaks and Valleys

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Peaks And Valleys

You Cannot Always Control External Events, But You Can Control Your Personal Peaks And Valleys By What You Believe And What You Do.

It Is Natural For Everyone Everywhere To Have Peaks And Valleys At Work And In life. 

― Spencer Johnson, “Peaks and Valleys: Making Good And Bad Times Work For You--At Work and in Life”

Who on earth doesn't experience ups and downs? We cannot separate the good from the bad, the bitter from the sweet, the banner months from the building months; because that is the law of the universe . Every rising market eventually experiences a correction. The other morning I was reminded of this fact while watching my lawn sprinklers watering my St. Augustine grass. I became acutely aware that my weeds were being watered along with the grass. Sometimes my weeds seem to grow better than the grass. I wish I could program my sprinkler system to only hydrate the good plants and omit the bad ones, but I cannot. Life doesn't work that way, does it ? I have to choose to deal with the weeds as they grow up and manifest themselves in my yard. The only thing I can change is my reaction.

Markets change, don’t they ? What is up today might be down tomorrow. An effective sales tactic or blockbuster product that filled the barn yesterday might not work today. Speaking of “ blockbuster”, just look at the change in personal entertainment -from videos and dvds to streaming. Who would’ve imagined wireless technology transforming the way we communicate over the last few years ? Video stores are on life support, while Netflix rules the airwaves.

So how does this all relate to sales and business ? There are peaks and valleys within our markets and our territories also. Spencer Johnson tells us in his story-telling manner, that all mountains and valleys are connected. How we accept and move through both of these positions determines how long we stay in each. In other words, we can deceive ourselves in thinking that we will always live on the peak, that our product or service will always sell like hot cakes, and that those key customers or clients will always love us and sing our praises. During the prosperous times, it is easy to get sloppy and over confident. We can even become prideful or arrogant about our high position, thinking that we are entitled to this level of success. Our standard of service and attentiveness to our clients can begin to slip. How fast we can fall from hero to zero !  I have experienced this in my own sales career, and it is extremely humbling to watch a third of your sales vaporize in an instant, due to external circumstances you have no control over. But what can we control?

We can take ownership of our reactions and responses. We are the master of our attitudes, mindset, and daily disciplines that are client-centered, and ensure our current and future success. Spencer exhorts us that while we are enjoying the success of the peak, it is wise to recognize and prepare for the valley that is eventually coming. By doing so, we can minimize the time that we will have to spend in that valley. You know it is coming, so why not prepare ?  Not everything about the valley is bad though, unless we allow ourselves to digress into a “ valley” mindset. In that valley, we are afforded a chance to pause for self reflection and honest lucid assessment of both our shortcomings and our strengths . When things were moving at a breakneck pace in the heat of the peak, it was easy to take those times for granted - easy to go out to dinner whenever we wanted or take that extended vacation out of the country. Lean times are educational sessions that teach us appreciation and thankfulness. Lean times also tap into our creativity and beckon us back to the most important things in life- relationships, our health, and peace of mind. 

Where are you today - in a peak or in a valley ? Both locations are part of the cycle of life and business . Jim Rohn so rightfully stated : “ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present.” Wherever we go, there we are. We can choose to live in a state of happiness regardless of the landscape of life - whether on a peak or in a valley. The choice is ours. Peace be with you. 

You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of. - Jim Rohn