Fresh Starts & Second Chances

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Fresh Starts & Second Chances

The thing about Christmas is that it almost doesn't matter what mood you're in or what kind of a year you've had - it's a fresh start. - Kelly Clarkson

New Year's Day. A fresh start. A new chapter in life waiting to be written. New questions to be asked, embraced, and loved. Answers to be discovered and then lived in this transformative year of delight and self-discovery. Today carve out a quiet interlude for yourself in which to dream, pen in hand. Only dreams give birth to change. - Sarah Ban Breathnach

Dixie was lost and confused - found wandering around a busy four lane highway. A good friend, who seems to attract stray animals, rescued her ( she’s a dog magnet). The dog wasn’t much to look at - mange across her face, a dull black dirty coat, which accentuated her visible ribs and protruding back bone from malnutrition. When our friend whisked her away from certain death on a busy highway , this five month old black lab buried her face in our friend’s jacket. Long and short of it, my wife was called and rushed to the vets office to meet this stray five month old puppy. She immediately fell in love, but there was a problem- me ! We had lost our rescue Cocker Spaniel to old age and poor health two years ago . Tally ( named after the road he was found on by my wife’s sister…), had been a member of the family for over twelve years; and I wasn’t sure if I wanted another dog. I was set in my ways, liked my routine, and not quite sure if I wanted to disrupt my life by adopting a puppy. My wife needed to sell the salesman, and that is what she did !

That very same evening we drove to the local animal shelter to visit this mangy Lab. “ Just meet her...that’s all you need to do!” my wife had subtly coaxed me.

As soon as they brought Dixie out to visit us, she promptly hopped up onto the bench where we were sitting, draped one paw over my leg, and kissed my wife’s face. She looked at me with those deep brown eyes ( the dog, not my wife…) and we bonded. I knew that I was closed. Where do I sign ? Weeks later, after some treatments and spaying, my wife picked up Dixie at the shelter, and brought her to her new adopted home. Now we’ve had many animals over the years, and raised two awesome sons; but I had forgotten what it was like to have the energy of a puppy in the house. It’s almost like someone dropped off a toddler with a box of formula, said “good luck”, and drove off into the sunset. Raising dogs ( or children ) is work ! But my wife was up for the task ! In one week, she successfully taught Dixie to sit, high five, lay down, play fetch, and not to harass us while we are eating dinner. Actually, we are both being trained, because I am learning things along with the dog. Just as with Caesar, The Dog Whisperer, it seems that the owners need as much or even more training than the dog does.

Why have I shared my dog story, and how does this have anything to do with with sales, business or even the Holidays? Thank you for asking ! Bottom line, we all need fresh starts. Everyone needs a second chance. New Years present opportunities for new goals, resets, setting aside the past hurts , failures, or even successes ;  and moving forward. We are all faced with new challenges, new quotas and new expectations. Bringing Dixie into our family forced me out of my comfort zone, and into better habits - more walking, more moving, more time outside. This new addition has caused me to become a better version of myself, learning more patience ( except when driving in Orlando), and expanding my capacity to give and receive love. What new challenges and opportunities await you this year ? Now is the time for a fresh start .Today is a new day !

Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end. - Seneca

Let's forget the baggages of the past and make a new beginning. - Shehbaz Sharif